진정한 감사
진정한 감사는
대가를 바라는 것이 아니라
마음으로부터 우러나온 것입니다.
진심으로 감사하는 사람에게는 더 좋은
것으로 채워지지만, 그렇지 못한 사람은
있는 것도 빼앗기는 것이
감사의 법칙입니다.
- 전광의《작은감사 큰행복》중에서 -
* 진정한 감사는
긍정적인 마음에서 나옵니다.
삶속에서 감사는 행복의 첫걸음이기도
합니다. 새해를 맞아 부모님, 부부, 자녀,
친구들에게 진정한 감사의 마음을 가지고
문자나 전화로 사랑합니다, 감사합니다,
그렇게 전해 보세요.
35+ Best jQuery Plugins of December 2013
We have come to an end of this year and here is our monthly article in which we have rounded up best of the rest jQuery plugins. Expected to solve your purpose and help you out in various endeavours these best jQuery plugins are carefully handpicked.
Developers, every now and then come up with come really helpful plugins but looking for the right one at the right time can be a daunting task. To help cut down that extra effort and time that can be used otherwise productively we jot them down to provide the same under the same roof.
Check out our preceding month’s that is the list of best jQuery plugins of December 2013. Will be coming up with lot more interesting stuff in coming days, weeks, and months.
Also, don’t forget to take a look at last months’ lists of useful jQuery plugins!
40 Best jQuery Plugins of November 2013
30+ Best jQuery Plugins of October 2013
70 Best jQuery Plugins of September 2013
50+ Best jQuery Plugins of August 2013
Excolo Slider is one simple jQuery slider plugin that supports responsive design and touch and comes with features like autoplay slideshow, mouse slider navigation, pagination and many others to help slide images easily.
dynamicForm by Ian Ashcroft is a a great jQuery plugin developed for dynamic form section management.
‘Press and Hold button’ jQuery plugin helps user make a button that can be held down for a period of time. One can say, its a substitute of ‘Are You Sure’ dialog boxes.
Developed by Cameron Daigle, Stagehand is a useful jQuery plugin for designers and developers for describing, visualize and debug complex interface interactions.
jQuery.simpleTagger plugin is used to transform a <select> element into a nice input field to manage tags.
Richard Hung developed a plugin named Galpop. Its an image gallery pop-up that can be controlled with the left and right arrow keys. Besides, it resizes with your browser easily.
ContentShare is a jQuery plugin that enables users to share the exact content on a page which they wish to share. The plugin supports Facebook and Twitter by default but users can add more networks easily.
Tipr by Tipue is a small and simple jQuery tooltip plugin worth checking out for it is helpful for users in miscellaneous projects.
This plugin transforms textfields to customizable editors. With features like flexible fullscreen mode, works on mobile and major desktop browsers.
Demo | Download
This is a Query plugin that is developed with the aim to help users track Google Analytics Events.
Owl Carousel is a touch enabled jQuery plugin that lets users create beautiful responsive carousel slider.
Tipue drop is a search suggestion box jQuery plugin that is an open source and responsive plugin to be made optimum use of in various projects.
CLNDR by Kyle Stetz is a jQuery plugin that lets create calendars.
carouFredSel plugin adds carousels to your website. It turns HTML elements into a carousel and has its own WordPress plugin.
jQuery.rotation by Piotr Murach is a responsive and mobile enabled plugin that helps users create rotating content such as image carousel, slider and rotating testimonials from twitter.
FailSafe jQuery plugin promises to help users application work in right manner even in peril situations. It works when a user loses net connectivity or laptop battery goes out by displaying a user-friendly message appears.
JeeGoo Popup is a jQuery popup plugin that is lightweight and flexible application popup plugin by Erik van den Berg,
highchartTable is a plugin that provides a simple way for users to convert HTML data tables into Highcharts graphs.
Clock or Timer plugin in retro flip-count down style plugin by Chupurnov Valeriy as the name says does its job for which it is developed.
Bootstrap color picker slider with color swatches supports for human perceived lightness and works in all modern browsers and on touch devices for users to work on various projects easily.
sGlides is a jQuery plugin that helps users generate simple, light-weight slider that can be easily customized and styled using regular CSS.
Dynomap is a responsive image map plugin for users to interact with areas on the map and custom callbacks.
Tabslet is a jQuery plugin for tabs that supports custom events, rotation, animation and controls making the tasks of users easier.
Developed by Ali Cigari Quick Parallax Scroll helps create a parallax background for different page . The plugin can be added to existing pages that too without changing the HTML mark up.
X-clicks you all know are unexpected and tricky click events that are triggered in Internet Explorer when the mousedown and mouseup events are triggered on two different elements. Coming to the point XClick by Louis AMELINE plugin lets users predict and prevent x-clicks to avoid the further mess.
Developed by Erik van den Berg, JeeGooColo jQuery color picker plugin is a flexible color picker that is based on jeegoopopup.
aniJS by Rijad Dizdarevi is an image sprite sheet jQuery animation plugin that helps users in various projects.
Developed by Arthur Corenzan, Decoy plugin lets users make decoys for the elements as quickly and easily as possible. This plugin lets you change an element’s properties, style and behavior besides letting you restore to its original form.
DaisyNav is a jQuery plugin that helps users to handle responsive navigation on their websites.
This is a plugin that uses Canvas for creating a print offset effect on any image source by altering the pixel data.
jVanilla is a menu jQuery plugin that takes an existing pure CSS drop-down menu to add enhancements like animations, submenu levels and timeout delays to it.
jQuery Responsive Lazy Loader by J-Et. Martin is a plugin that lets users load images renditions according to CSS display and breakpoint.
Password Checker developed by Nicolas Zhao is a jQuery plugin that is developed with the aim of detecting the strength of the password entered by the users.
Haralan Dobrev developed a jQuery plugin and named it Infinite Scroll that is fast, bi-directional to help users in endless pagination.
Moa Modal is a flexible jQuery modal plugin that comes with features like custom animation and positioning for users to help them the best way possible.
Developed by Damir Sultanov, iCheck is a highly customizable checkboxes and radio buttons jQuery plugin with features like identical inputs across different browsers and devices, touch devices support and many more.
SVG is an helps create an interactive, resolution-independent vector graphics that appears just perfect on any size screen.
Prettychecks is a plugin that helps replace the default user agent checkboxes and radios for custom images.
Squishy is a jQuery plugin that automatically resizes text to exactly fit the container that too without asking you to make extra efforts. Simply link the script file and include a declaration rest is Squishy’s job to do the needful.
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There is always a very high demand of under construction website templates which are otherwise also known as coming soon countdown website html templates which actually helps a webmasters to convey a message in a very professional way. Sometimes we as bloggers do not want our audience to view what is happening behind the scene when a webmaster is preparing a new blog for launch. These Under construction and coming soon templates help to convey this message in a very professional way like :
These Under construction templates which are totally free of cost are a niche alternatives for the ugly looking “site under construction” pages. These brand new and beautiful under construction templates are nothing but well coded html/css web templates. These free coming soon templates are a simple but professional way of informing your visitors that work on the website is going on and meanwhile one can input his/her email and visit the blog at a later date. Visitors can optin their Email IDs so that they get the formal announcement of the launch. These Under construction templates can be worked upon and customized according one’s need and liking.
People who are really in need of free coming soon and under construction templates, feel free to go through our list of free html templates for Under construction websites. We have really put in a lot of hard work to bring you the best free coming soon template and beautiful under construction html/css website templates for you to download.
A very beautiful free coming soon website template which can be customized as per you needs and liking. Visitors are able to leave their Email IDs for future communication.
This is a free coming soon template that will entice your taste buds and force you submit your Email ID and also come back when the website is formally launched. This html template is totally free and no backlink is to provided to the original creator.
The perfect coming soon and under construction html template for a website based on the Fashion niche. This free under construction template has all the possible famous social networking sharing links.
This is the perfect coming soon and under construction template for a to be launched iPhone App. There is a get notified button which will let you input your email for future communication and all the social sharing profiles are also there to make use of.
Perfect under construction html template for any coffee company or any company for that matter. Facebook and twitter social profiles can be included for social engagement.
The ideal html template for under construction websites pertaining to Automobile niche based website and blogs. Social profiles and email are present in the template.
A beautiful and very creative coming soon website html template for you to download for free. A big input Email ID blank for high conversion to get leads and optins with the presence of social profiles on the top. Enjoy this visual template for free.
This can be the ideal website html template for restaurant blogs that are coming soon. Beautiful under construction template will really please the customers.
This free Under Construction template is for the Music lovers. With the possibility of incorporating a video trailer or a short teaser of the actual product that will be available after the formal launch. People love videos and they would not mind a beautiful video describing the website about. Email Input is also available in this free coming soon html template.
Blue in color and what a majestic coming soon html template it is and that too for free. A very nice big hello is there to greet your readers and all the important contact info is quite big and bold enough. People can optin to get regualr updates about the chain of events regarding any activity on the website.
So these were some of the best Under Construction and coming soon html website templates for you download at totally free of cost. You can use these coming soon html templates till you are working at the back end of your website or blog. This will keep all your visitors engaged and you are also able to get email leads as well. If you have more Coming soon templates, please do share as well.
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Free jQuery CSS3 Image Hover Effects are an excellent way to add in nice effect to your website projects. In this collection we've gathered the best css3 image hover effects jquery plugins recently published. These Free jQuery CSS3 Image Hover Effects is an effective and creative way of adding professional effects using the latest CSS3 tools.
jQuery is a cross-platform JavaScript library designed to simplify the client-side scripting of HTML. It was released in January 2006 at BarCamp NYC by John Resig. It is currently developed by a team of developers led by Dave Methvin. Used by over 65% of the 10,000 most visited websites, jQuery is the most popular JavaScript library in use today.
Today's collection contains 53 Free jQuery CSS3 Image Hover Effects. The CSS markup is commented and you’ll get also a documentation file to help you start working with these hover effects. We hope you enjoy this collection when using it on your latest web design projects.
Part 2 of the CSS3 hover effects. This one uses new transitions and different coding. 12 different examples with different effects and transitions. All shapes are CSS3 and not images. Also the first animation on the video demo will not work with Google Chrome or Opera. But the other 11 work perfect with all updated browsers. This will only work with updated browsers, IE8 and IE7 is a no go.
Auto Post Thumbnail PRO is a plugin to generate Featured Image (AKA Post Thumbnail) from first image in a post or any custom post type. The plugin will also create thumbnails from several popular Video services if it finds a Video embedded in the post.
This set of 17 Image Hover Effects uses some of the best and newest CSS3 features to showcase your images in a unique way. Each effect comes with variants and in a separate HTML file and the documentation file will help you to integrate them on your website.
CSS3 Image Hover Effects Vol.2
After the success of my CSS3 Image Hover Effects, this new set of more advanced 14 effects contains a full range of awesome stuff to showcase your work in a modern and different way. Each effect comes with variants and in a separate HTML file and the documentation file will help you to integrate them on your website.
Today we want to show you how to create some exciting 3D hover effects using CSS3 and jQuery. This idea is inspired by the cool hover effect that you can find on the page of the Google SketchUp Showcase.
This CSS3 Hover pack contains more than 20 examples of Hover Effects. Few single effects and more combinations to boost creativity. All effects simulate flash and javascript with pure CSS3 . Each effect on each css and html files.
Scrollable Thumbs Menu with jQuery
In this tutorial we will create a fixed menu with scrollable thumbs. The idea is to have a menu fixed to the bottom of the page and let a vertical stack of thumbs appear when hovering over a menu item. The thumbs are scrollable by moving the mouse up and down which makes a really nice effect. We will add some CSS3 properties for spicing up the looks.
jQuery CSS3 Image Hover Effects
CSS3 Image Hover Effects is a jQuery plugin by Fusiondevs.com for adding superb hover effects to your website’s images. Perfect for using on banners, advertisements and custom buttons.
Hover Slide Effect with jQuery
Today we will create a neat effect with some images using jQuery. The main idea is to have an image area with several images that slide out when we hover over them, revealing other images. The sliding effect will be random, i.e. the images will slide to the top or bottom, left or right, fading out or not. When we click on any area, all areas will slide their images out.
Killer CSS3 Image Hover Effects
22 Different Image hover effects using just CSS3 . These effects will give your images and thumbnails a unique and modern effect. Integrating the effects is simple and straight forward. Each effect has a lightbox option where all the code needed for integration resides.
Bubbleriffic Image Gallery with jQuery
In this tutorial we will create a bubbly image gallery that shows your images in a unique way. The idea is to show the thumbnails of albums in a rounded fashion allowing the user to scroll them automatically by moving the mouse. Clicking on a thumbnail will zoom in a big circle and the full image which will be automatically resized to fit into the screen. Navigating through the images will slide the current image to the side and make the new one appear in a zoom like fashion.
Picanim – jQuery Image Hover Effect Plugin
Picanim is jQuery plugin used to bring stylish image hover effects,it contains more than 27+ unique hover effects and more coming soon.Browser Support:IE(even ie6),Firefox,Opera,Safari,Google Chrome.
Sweet Thumbnails Preview Gallery
In this tutorial we will create an image gallery with jQuery that shows a preview of each image as a little thumbnail. The idea is to hover over the slider dots and make the regarding thumbnail slide into the previewer. When clicking a slider dot, the full image will slide in from the right or left side, depending on the currently viewed image.
Zalki Hover Image – Plugin jQuery
Zalki Hover Img – is a jQuery plugin for image hover animations. Cross browser even IE 7 (even opacity).Easy to use and customize. Supports thirty animation effects from jQuery Easing. No need to adjust the size of the container.
Thumbnails Preview Slider with jQuery
In this tutorial we will show you how to create and use a thumbnails preview slider with jQuery. Since we got a lot of requests to show how to make the preview slider work separately from the full image view, we decided to make a tutorial on how to use the little thumbnails preview part only.
jQuery Hover Cards is a lightweight plugin that gives you the power to create beautiful and interactive hover effects for your images and thumbnails the differ depending on the direction the image was hovered.
Original Hover Effects with CSS3
The power of CSS3 is enormous and in this tutorial we will see how to exploit it in a very creative way. We are going to create some thumbnail hover effects with CSS3 transitions. On hover over a thumbnail, we will reveal some description of the thumbnail, using a different style in each example.
WordPress Plugin – Easy Social Hover allows users to add multiple on hover effects with Social Network Sharing buttons to their images using standard WP media tool. Add Facebook Share, Twitter, Pinterest, LinkedIn and GooglePlus sharing to your Images with a Style! This plugin will enable your visitors to easily and simply share your images over major social networks!
Hover and Click Trigger for Circular Elements with jQuery
Applying a :hover pseudo-class to an element is widely known as the classic “hovering” over an element on a web page. A problem that arose with the introduction of the border-radius property is the non-realistic triggering of the hover event when entering the bounding box of the element and not just the actual visible area. This becomes extreme when we create a circle by setting the border-radius of a square to 50% (half of its outer width and height).
Social Image Hover for jQuery combines all of the web’s most popular social services into one easy to use plugin. Social Image Hover allows you to quickly and easily add hover-over social buttons to your images on-the-fly making them instantly “shareable” on Pinterest, Facebook, Twitter, Google Plus, Reddit, and more. Even better, the hover effects are silky smooth, cross browser, and come in multiple styles!
Today we want to show you how to create a neat lightbox effect using only CSS. The idea is to have some thumbnails that are clickable, and once clicked, the respective large image is shown. Using CSS transitions and animations, we can make the large image appear in a fancy way.
IHC – Portfolio CSS3 Image Hover Caption
The CSS3 is amazing. This item contain a CSS3 portfolio styling with 15 animation types. No javascript, no image sprites. The source code is well commented and very easy to edit and understand.
Thumbnail Proximity Effect with jQuery and CSS3
Today we want to show you how to create a neat thumbnail proximity effect with jQuery. The idea is to scale thumbnails when hovering over them and also scale their neighbouring thumbnails proportionally to their distance. We’ll also make a description appear.
WordPress Plugin – Anyhover Image Effects allows user to add multiple on hover effects to their images using standard WP media tool. This plugin has got 4 starting effects and 16 hover effects so in combination this plugin delivers users 64 cool effects for their images!
Responsive Pricing Table with Neat Hover States
Anyone else getting a text squishing/snapping effect upon mouse hover? It seems unintentional.
HoverEx – jQuery image hover animation plugin
HoverEx is a jQuery plugin for image hover animations.It contains over 36 animations and prepared 18 hover animation templates.It also support for image zoom and slider effect.You can use it to create unique animated effects effortlessly without any knowledge of jQuery. Just make the needs html markup,it will word well for you.
Filter Functionality with CSS3
Using the general sibling combinator and the :checked pseudo-class, we can toggle states of other elements by checking a checkbox or a radio button. In this tutorial we will be exploring those CSS3 properties by creating a experimental portfolio filter that will toggle the states of items of a specific type.
ThumbFx – Responsive jQuery Thumbnail Effects
Enrich your website experience with ThumbFx, a jQuery animation plugin that brings your images and content to life. Create unique animated effects effortlessly without any knowledge of jQuery. All effects are responsive and adapt perfectly for all device resolutions like mobiles, tablets and desktops. Check out how awesome it is.
Pure CSS3 Vertical menu with nice hover effect
Vertical menu used font icon and nice hover effect. Thanks CSS3
WP ThumbFx – Responsive jQuery Thumbnail Effects
Enrich your website experience with WPThumbFx, a WordPress jQuery animation plugin that brings your images and content in your articles to life. Create unique animated effects effortlessly without any knowledge of jQuery. All effects are responsive and adapt perfectly for all device resolutions like mobiles, tablets and desktops.
Direction-Aware Hover Effect with CSS3 and jQuery
In today’s tip we’ll show you how to create a direction-aware hover effect using some CSS3 goodness and jQuery. The idea is to have a little overlay slide in on top of some thumbnails from the direction that we are coming from with the mouse. When we “leave” the element, the overlay will slide out to that direction, following our mouse. This will create an interesting-looking effect.
Zoome – jQuery Image Zoom Effect Plugin
Zoome is a jQuery plugin to help you zoom images with hover effect(grayscale,blur,transparent) and you can zoom-in or zoom-out use mousewheel.
Circle Hover Effects with CSS Transitions
In today’s tutorial we’ll experiment with hover effects on circles. Since we have the border radius property, we can create circular shapes and they have been appearing more often as design elements in websites. One use that I especially enjoy seeing is the circular thumbnail which just looks so much more interesting than the usual rectangular. And because the circle is such a special shape, we are going to create some special hover effects for it!
HoverUp is a flexible, yet very lightweight, jQuery Plugin to easily add animated captions to pictures or other content.
CSS3 Image – Text Hover Effects
8 Standard Background Animations. Multiple Background Animation in 1 Hover. More than 15 Background Combinations. 14 Text Effects. 2 Background colors. (Light and Dark).
jFade is a jQuery plugin that allows you to easily add fade interaction to elements on your website! Adds a nice UI hover effect using nothing more than the images already on your page. With less than a dozen extra lines of code, you can easily control opacity fades when users hover over images.
This is the demo for my blog post about how I build the image hexagons + hover effects on my new website.
Neat Photo Hover Effect with CSS Sprites and jQuery
Here is a very nice effect for photos or some black and white images. We are using some CSS sprites for the photos to create a darken effect when hovering over the images. This could also be used with other effects. The basic principle is to create the impression
Pretty Hover Effects with CSS and jQuery
This article will show you how to create pretty hover effects for your images using jQuery and CSS. The plan is to use a clean mark up, adding the necessary elements on the fly. What this means is that we are starting from barebones image HTML tags, with title attributes only. This can come useful especially if you already have hundreds of images that you want to apply this effect on.
Photo Booth Strips with Lightbox
A tutorial about how to create some neat scrollable photo booth strips and integrate Lightbox 2 and customize it in order to make it responsive and touch-device friendly.
Magnifying glass for image zoom using Jquery and CSS3
Learn to make a realistic magnifying glass using Jquery and CSS3. Hover above the image to see the action. The code uses CSS3 box-shadow and border-radius properties to create the magnifying glass. Jquery is used to position it at the cursor coordinates and change the background position accordingly.
Putting CSS Clip to Work: Expanding Overlay Effect
A tutorial about how to create a simple expanding overlay effect using the CSS clip property and CSS transitions.
Simple bounce effect made with css3 keyframe animation
Mate Hover – is a jQuery plugin for image hover animations. You can change the appearance of pop-up elements. You can embed your icons, text etc.
Fast pseudo-perspective on hover
This is an effect from bighuman.com — but sped up by eliminating some “transition:” CSS which was glitching up the browser with javascript’s quick updates.
Image & Thumbnail Hover Slider
I’d like to introduce you my brand new script here! Image & Thumbail Hover Slider is nice and smooth, clean and scalable – you gonna love it!
A test of different styles that can be applied to scalable product images to show the product’s information.
Plus Thumbnail Post Widget – Premium Plugin
Display how you love to see your latest post, there are 5 different types (the most used). Show indicates the types of post you want to use between them are the options: Most Popular (most commented), Last Post, The most viewed.
Took a few minutes today to write up a little plugin for all your caption-revealing needs. I’d be honored for you to use it, just let me know what you made!
Social Image Hover for WordPress
Social Image Hover for WordPress combines all of the web’s most popular social services into one easy to use plugin. Social Image Hover allows you to quickly and easily add hover-over social buttons to your images on-the-fly making them instantly “shareable” on Pinterest, Facebook, Twitter, and Google Plus. Even better, the hover effects are silky smooth, cross browser, and come with multiple overlay images!
Awesome jQuery image Swish Zoom Hover Effect
With this plugin you can add a zoom style effect to your images on hover, also you can add an overlay to it (What you tend to see on a lot of themes with lightboxes). You can also adjust all the settings it comes with (refer to usage in the index.html header). It’s really simple to setup, if you get into any trouble with it do let me know and I’ll do my best to help you out.
ImageLens – A jQuery plug-in for Lens Effect Image Zooming
was searching a good jQuery plug-in for image zooming but couldn’t find any which was matching my criteria. I need the lens effect while zooming images and it should work without much plumbing. So, I decided to create one and now sharing this with everyone.
Adaptive Thumbnail Pile Effect with Automatic Grouping
An experimental jQuery plugin that will group thumbnails by a shared data-attribute into a pile. When clicking on the pile, the thumbnails that belong to that pile will be spread into a grid using CSS transitions.
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두려움은 인간이 만들어낸 악마의 무기이다.
확신과 신념은 이러한 악마를 물리치고
성공적인 삶을 살아가기 위해 꼭 필요한 인간의 무기다.
이 신념에는 위대한 힘이 있다.
신념은 좌절과 실패에 쉽게 무릎 꿇지 않는 자들을 지지하는
우주의 불가항력적인 힘과 연결되는 고리이다.
- 나폴레온 힐
대다수 실패자들은
스스로가 마음속에 심어 놓은 한계 때문에 실패합니다.
부정적인 마음과 자기 의심이 성공을 가로막는 주요 장애물입니다.
확신과 신념으로 두려움을 제거하는 것이
성공을 향한 첫 걸음입니다.
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아프리카 두더지
우리 모두
아프리카 두더지의 딜레마를 갖고 있다.
거친 가시가 피부를 온통 뒤덮고 있는
아프리카 두더지처럼 다른 사람에게
상처받을까 봐, 상처 줄까 봐
우리는 늘 누군가와
거리를 두며
살아간다.
- 조앤 래커의《왜 가까운 사이일수록 더 상처받는가》중에서 -
* 사람은
아프리카 두더지가 아닙니다.
피부에 가시도 없을 뿐더러 서로 만져보면
너무 부드럽고 너무 따뜻합니다. 있지도 않은
가시에 찔리는 상처를 미리 두려워말고
한 발 더 가까이 다가가십시오!
웃으며 두 손을 잡으세요.
포옹하세요.
